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I've always prided myself on being a compassionate and empathetic person. I believe in giving everyone the benefit of the doubt, in listening to their stories, and in trying to understand their perspectives. I've never been one to judge others harshly or to engage in gossip and rumors. But lately, I've found myself surrounded by people who seem to thrive on toxicity.

This post has the shortest title of all posts on my blog, just 2 words. These words not only mean much, but they also influence much in the real world. Even after 48 years on the planet, I have not become any wiser than I was but have learned to play safe with these 2 words. One phrase that has stuck throughout my life was something that my then girlfriend used to blurt out whenever something went topsy turvy, is “Shit Happens”. These are again just 2 words which explain the silliest reason for something going wrong. However, today we shall look at the 2 words used in the title of the post. Mostly, English idioms. so here we go; They say…

The "leadership thermometer vs. thermostat" concept is a metaphor used to illustrate two distinct leadership styles. This analogy, often used in management and leadership circles, highlights the fundamental difference between leaders who simply react to their environment (thermometer) and those who proactively shape their surroundings (thermostat). In this post, we'll delve into the nuances of this metaphor, exploring what it means to be a thermometer leader versus a thermostat leader, and perhaps, challenge some conventional wisdom along the way.

Disclaimer: This article was written by an unknown author and does not reflect the views and opinions of the person sharing it. Its purpose is to invoke thought and discussion in society on the topic of ableism. It’s strange, isn’t it? Disabled people are seen as both “inspiring” and “pitiful” by the same society. Two extreme reactions, yet both rooted in the same issue: ableism. When we achieve something, even something mundane like holding a job or attending school, we’re showered with applause. “You’re so inspiring!” they say, as if existing in a disabled body and doing normal human things is extraordinary. On the other hand, when we struggle—or even just live visibly disabled lives—we’re pitied. “It’s so sad,” they say, as if our lives are inherently less valuable or fulfilling. Both responses are dehumanizing. They’re two sides of the same coin. The pedestal and the pity party both come from the belief that disability is a deviation, something that needs fixing or overcoming.